Awaken the Genie Within

No Words Needed

I've been working with a client for about a month who came to me because she was going through a very difficult time in her marriage. She truly believed the only way to have peace and happiness back in her life and her children's life, was to end the marriage unless her husband made some drastic changes.

I had a different thought. Before we began I told her I would only work with her if she was willing to first look inward and see what changes she needed to make and then take action around those changes. Reluctantly, she agreed. Well, as often is the case, even without her husband making drastic changes, the changes she's making has brought her great peace and created more harmony in the family.

She said something to me the other day that just made me all warm and fuzzy inside because I know how true it is.

"Without words, I'm starting to say more things."

She went on to explain that the less she reacts to his behaviors, reactions or moods, the quicker he shifts into a nicer person.

"He's starting to see I'm not willing to keep playing the game and my children are more relaxed and happy."

There's still work to be done as she continues to learn more about herself, but what has been accomplished in just three sessions is a great credit to her willingness to no longer place blame and to be the best person she can be, not just to her family, but to herself.

When you are truly open to exploring what part you play in any area of your life that's not working, you bring yourself closer to knowing the truth and experiencing real change inside and out.

The Angels Around Us - Part 2

If you are reading this before you've seen my post from March 22nd you may want to read that first. Just scroll down and you'll see Part 1 of The Angels Around Us.

The second Angel experience I shared with my client was a life saving one although I didn't interact with it as I did in the parking garage.

I was driving along the 10 freeway in Los Angeles when I looked down for a second. When I looked back up I saw a Mack truck moving over into my lane and I was about to hit it driving along at 65 miles an hour. I slammed on my brakes only to send the car into a spin moving across 2 lanes of the freeway. During the spin my hands were pulled off the steering wheel and my entire body was shoved against the seat with my hands up in the air. Everything seemed to be going in slow motion as I saw cars swerving to avoid me.

The next thing I know my car is stopped, on the shoulder of the freeway, facing the wrong way. Within seconds a man is knocking on my window and I roll it down. He asks if I am okay and as miracles will have it, I was - other than the fact that I was shaking like a leaf. He told me that my car did a 360 and then a 180 before it stopped in the spot I was and it was as if the other cars were being parted to allow my car to get to the side of the freeway. He then said, "And look what you ended up in front of." I was right next to the freeway call box to get some help for my flat tire which was the only damage to the car.

This gentleman was kind enough to stay with me until Triple A arrived. As we spoke we shared our knowing that my Angel/s had taking very good care of me once again.

If you have any Angel experiences you'd like to share, I'd love to read them. Just click on the comment link at the bottom of this post.

 

The Angels Around Us - Part 1

A client who is going through a difficult time in her life asked me this question; "Do you believe there are Angels amongst us? Is it possible to be helped by them?" My answer came swiftly and with great confidence. "Yes, absolutely!"

This surprised me a bit because when I'm asked questions about my beliefs from clients I always encourage them to not make decisions based on what I may or may not believe. Their beliefs are all that matters. Yet with this client, I suppose I gave such a definitive answer because of two experiences I had and because of the pain she was in - hoping, when I shared my stories, it would help ease some of her pain - and it did. I'd like to share one the stories with you in the hopes it supports you through any difficult times you may be facing now or in the future.

After having lunch with a girlfriend I walked to the parking garage where I parked my car. There were 4 levels and when I walked to the area where I thought I parked my car I was surprised to not see it there. I searched a bit more only to become completely baffled when it was nowhere to be found. Now some people might have thought the car was stolen but my mind just didn't go there.

After about 10 minutes I felt a little panicked knowing I had to pick up my son from school. As the panic grew, I stood amongst the cars with my eyes closed asking for help. Within a matter of seconds I heard a noise behind me. It was a man in one of those little cars they drive around in while monitoring the parking garage. He asked if I needed help and when I explained my situation he told me to hop in and we'd drive the garage looking for my car. Within a matter of minutes we found my car. I thanked him profusely and as I stepped out of the car my back was to him. I turned around to wave good-bye and thank him again. To my surprise he was gone.

Looking behind me, in front of me, all around, he was nowhere in sight - vanishing silently into the ethers. There was only one explanation in my mind - My Angel had come to my rescue.

I will post my second experience in my next blog.

Let the Expert Take the Lead

It's funny how much longer something takes when someone keeps interrupting with what he or she thinks you're going to say next. Well, I'm here to admit, that someone I'm talking about just happens to be me!

The other day I was having some technical difficulties with my computer and was feeling rather anxious about it because it meant not being able to get the work done that I needed to get done by a certain time frame. When I was on the phone with the tech support guy I found myself listening to what he would say to do next, only to jump in every 30 seconds or so telling this poor guy what I thought he was going to tell me to do after that. His response, each and every time was, "Nope. Now you need to..." He never lost his cool. His demeanor was always very pleasant and patient while I continued to jump in trying to stay a step ahead assuming this would move things along more quickly.

After about 5 minutes into the conversation it finally occurred to me that all I was doing was slowing the process down and sounding like a complete nut case! Not to mention being incredibly rude. So guess what I did? I shut up and listened. Imagine that! When I did this, that's when everything moved along more quickly and smoothly. He didn't have to repeat himself and I didn't have to ask any silly questions because I missed what he said. And, as to be expected, I only remember all the techy stuff he taught me after I stopped interrupting with my brilliant assumptions.

I suppose I'm not the only person on the planet who's done this and so I share this story with you as a gentle reminder. When something goes wrong and you need assistance, take a deep breath, be a good student and let the expert take the lead. Not only will time be saved but you'll actually remember what you heard!

Book's Second Printing!

I am thrilled to announce the second printing of my book!

Awaken The Genie Within; A Handbook to Help You Silence Your Gremlin, Manage Your Emotions and Bring Out the Best of Who You Are.

Yes, it has a new title and not only that, it's got a new cover! Which I happen to love! If you've been meaning to purchase a copy for yourself or as a gift for a loved one now's the time!

www.awakenthegeniewithin.com/wisdombook

Here's what some happy readers are saying:

Linda's book is such an easy and enjoyable read, full of deep inspiration and wisdom that holds the keys to guide you toward profound changes in your life. Her writing moves you beyond fear and into courage to take you to the next level of your life! - Cindy Cashman - Million selling author - What Men Know About Woman

I love having it by my bedside, so that I read a chapter or two before I sleep and I am assured sweet, productive dreams! Linda's methods and messages are positive, uplifting and help you create and become the best you. - Peter Gurski - Event Planner

Linda's ability to recognize the human side of her spirit is breathtaking and genuine. As I read her words, her stories resonated in my own heart and gave context to this experience we call life.
- Tara Paterson - Parenting Coach

While I sat reading these simple, yet profound stories, I felt like we were sitting across from one another. Every other page in the book has been dog-eared because I feel that I will want to go back and get another dose of the wisdom that jumps off the page. - Lilly LaBonge - Entrepreneur

If you're ready to give yourself or someone else a gift full of love, inspiration and encouragement -

http://awakenthegeniewithin.com/wisdombook

Or feel free to call me directly to order. I'd love to meet you over the phone! 310-375-4800

Perfect Emotional Energy Management

While in the bank there was an older gentleman next to me who was rather upset. In a fairly loud voice he was expressing his frustration to the bank manager about his situation. As his frustration continued to escalate I watched the bank manager for his reaction. There wasn't one moment when he lost his cool. Even his face continued to have a look of compassion and patience for this gentleman.

What was interesting, is the older gentleman seemed to be getting more frustrated the calmer the bank manager remained as he listened patiently without apparent judgment.

Finally he said to the gentleman, "If I'm hearing you correctly, you would like me to make the call to the bank headquarters because you believe this is a situation to be handled by a bank employee and not you. Is that correct?"

"Yes, that's exactly what I want!" responded the gentleman, gruffly.
The manager then said, "That won't be a problem. Just give me the paperwork and I'll take care of it now."

I watched the gentleman's reaction and he truly seemed perplexed. He appeared to be ready for more of a fight, as if he were expecting resistance from the manager. When that didn't happen, he literally stumbled over his words, maintaining some of his gruffness, but now doing whatever he could to back off with some of his dignity in tact.

Within a matter of minutes, the manager returned and the problem was resolved. The manager stuck his hand out and the two men shook hands. "It's been a pleasure being able to help you, please come back again soon." said the manager.

The gentleman mumbled a thank you and off he went - probably trying to understand why it all went so smoothly. My guess is he's used to coming up against people who get sucked right into his energy and then they're off to the races - attracting resistance wherever he goes.

I complemented the manager on the way he handled this gentleman and what he said to me was just perfect! "Before he came in here I was having a wonderful day. I saw no reason to let someone else ruin that for me no matter what the situation."

Now that's what we all need to remember when we're faced with a situation that can suck us in and ruin our wonderful day.