Awaken the Genie Within

Do Nothing With Your Truth

During a coaching session with a client she said something to me that I just loved; "I'm afraid I won't know what to do with it once I uncover my truth about this."

When she said this it occurred to me how powerful that statement is and I wondered how many other people on the planet are afraid to uncover their truth for fear they won't know what to do with it. I asked her the only question that came to my mind:

"What if you don't have to do anything?"

There was silence on the other end of the phone for about thirty seconds and then she said:

"That would be fantastic and feels like a huge weight would be lifted off my shoulders. I'm going to give myself permission to see this truth and not worry about doing anything with my discovery."

I kid you not, within 1 minute she uncovered the truth she had been struggling to get to and then began to cry tears of joy. I just let her be in the moment while letting it all sink in. What I am absolutely sure of, she will know what next step to take when the time is right.

If you're holding back uncovering a personal truth for fear of not knowing what you'll need to do next, don't worry about it. Just allow it to be revealed and then do nothing with it until you're ready. Because the bigger truth is, you can't make the changes you're not ready to make - so relax and let go.

Every year at this time I volunteer with an organization called The Heartfelt Foundation. For one day, a party is given for 2,000 needy children and their families. Gifts are given out to the children, there are many activities, a visit with Santa and plenty of food.

Seeing these children's faces light up throughout the day, who have so little, is truly an honor to witness and be a part of. Below is a email that Patti, (she started the foundation 29 years ago) sent out. It was so beautifully written that I thought it was worth sharing with you in case you have the same concerns that others did when it comes to serving those in need for just one day.

So many of you have brought your concerns to me that we are not able to change the lives of those we serve, and how can one day make a sustaining difference?  I'd like you to consider these thoughts ~~

One of the things we look for in Heartfelt is to find those that other people might have stepped over, walked by, missed seeing, or ignored. We look for those who are hungry, that are homeless, that are lonely, that are sick or even dying. We may not be able to change their life situation. We may not be able to change their life.  But we can love them right where they are. Sometimes it is that loving and willing connection that we make, that time that we spend, that moving outside of our self to put our energy
into where that person is, that is what that person needs. That is what heals. That is what transforms a life.

We believe at Heartfelt that as each one of us does extend into being our brother's keeper and into that mindfulness of taking care of one another -- the planet does transform and it does lift and it does make a difference. And it is one by one.

So tomorrow, I encourage you to make connections, create memories, reach out past even your personal limitations, and then watch to see the miracles unfold right before your very eyes.

For those who won't be with us physically, please keep us in your best thoughts, and I lovingly encourage you this season to seek those with whom you can extend the blessing of your heart -- and change a life.

Happy Holy-days to all!
In loving service, Patti

This is a message we an take with us and apply toward every single day.

If you'd like to learn more about Patti's foundation: http://www.heartfelt.org/

Slow Down to Move Faster and Pay Attention to Your Energy!

I had to laugh at myself the other day when I called AT&T to get help with my cell phone. My time frame was limited so I really wanted this to happen as quickly as possible. Right from the get go I should have known I was setting myself up for a very slow process with that thinking.

The first person I spoke to asked me all the same questions the automated voice asked me. I remained patient. Then she asked me other questions to see if she could solve my problem. I knew she couldn't and I said I wanted to be connected to the warranty department. No such luck - there's rules and protocol to get me to that department and this woman was the gatekeeper.

As my time was ticking away I could feel myself losing my patience. Finally, the question I've been waiting for, "Would you like me to transfer you to the warranty department. Uh....yeahhh! Sometimes I just love my Gremlin thoughts! However, my Genie calmly said, "Yes, that would be great."

The warranty woman answered the phone and I couldn't believe what was happening. This woman spoke slower than a snail's crawl. I don't think I've ever had someone talk to me so slow. Now I'm thinking, "Let's go! My time is limited here." I must have interrupted her 3 times before she said to me, "Mame, I understand that you're in a rush and I really want to help you but as long as you keep trying to move this process faster than I can make it happen it's really just slowing me down."

Wow! Talk about a smack of reality. I took a deep breath, thanked her for reminding me about this and apologized for my rude interruptions. Now here's what's so crazy. Once I calmed down and chose to believe I had plenty of time, her talking sped up! Suddenly she was asking questions faster, coming up with answers quicker and finally gave me the exact information I needed to solve my problem. I hung up the phone with 5 minutes to spare until my next client.

There's no doubt in my mind that my vibration and belief manifested what showed up for me. I got on the phone anxious about the amount of time I had, and the people I spoke to were a perfect match to my vibration. The minute I shifted my energy and believed time was no longer a problem, the warranty lady was happy to support my belief!

When you're wanting things to move along faster than they are, pay attention to the energy you're holding and trust that the minute you shift internally and slow down physically and/or mentally, things will get done more quickly - not to mention, more efficiently.

Quotes To Embrace

I was reading my favorite magazine - The Week - a magazine that compacts pertinent news going on around the world along with some not so serious stuff. Today I'm sharing a couple of quotes from the not so serious stuff.

The first comes from an interview with Meredith Vieira - TV host. She was responding to something a feminist said to her at a party about setting women back by putting her family first above business choices.

What she thought to herself was, "I'm not the standard-bearer here. For me the message is, get in touch with who you are, with what you want, and try to shape everything else around that. None of us should be the figureheads for everybody else."

The second quote is from Jennifer Aniston commenting on people's perception of what her personal life should look like.

She states, "Just because at this stage my life doesn't have the traditional framework to it - the husband and the two kids and the house in Connecticut - it's mine. It's my experience. And if you don't like the way it looks, then stop looking at it!"

There's no doubt that we live in a world where many people love to judge and comment how everyone else is living the wrong way just because it doesn't fit their idea or beliefs. But both these statements are great examples of choosing to create a life that feels best without trying to please anyone else because it would make other people feel better or be more comfortable.

When we are willing to set our lives up in a way that best supports us emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally, it is then, that life can flow more easily for us.

Sure I'm stating the obvious, and perhaps you're thinking that's easier said then done. Well, maybe for you, it is right now. But it doesn't mean that you can't begin the process of taking even the smallest step that heads you in that direction. It requires courage and a willingness to stand up for yourself. It requires moving outside your comfort zone. It requires not always putting others first. It requires not caring so much about what others think of you.

The bottom line is this is your life and it's the only one you've got. You might as well do everything in your power to let the world know, you intend to own it full out. And when you do, a funny thing happens along the way, the right people and circumstances start showing up that support your new found courage and efforts.